05 Key Emotional Intelligence Skills

Emotional intelligence skills are abilities that allow you to understand and manage your emotions. These skills are linked to a range of benefits including academic achievement, decision-making abilities, and overall success in life. Some experts have suggested that emotional intelligence, or EQ, might even be more important than IQ (Goleman, 2004).

The competencies of sensitivity, flexibility, adaptability, resilience, impact, listening, leadership, persuasion, motivating others, energy, decisiveness, and achievement motivation correspond to the emotional intelligence elements of self-awareness, emotional management, empathy, relationships, communication, and personal style (Armstrong, 2014).

Emotional intelligence can be measured with tools like the Trait Emotional Intelligence Questionnaire (Petrides and Furnham, 2000).

        01.             Self-Awareness

02.             Self-Regulation

03.             Social Skills

04.             Empathy

      05..             Motivation                                                                                               

    

   Figure 01. using EI development

 who suggested that it requires the ability to recognize emotion, integrate emotion into thought, comprehend emotion, and effectively control emotions (Goleman, 1995). According to Goleman,(1995) it is not enough to have a high IQ; emotional intelligence is also required.

Table 1. Components of Emotional Intelligence.

Component

Definition

Elements

Self-awareness

Understanding of one's own modes, feelings, and desires, as well as how these effect others

Self-confidence

realistic evaluation of oneself

possessing a mocking sense of humor

Self-regulation

the capacity to regulate or reroute disturbing urges or emotions

the propensity to delay making decisions and act first

Trustworthiness and integrity
Comfort with ambiguity
Openness to change

Self-motivation

Passion to work for reasons beyond money or status
Propensity to pursue goals with energy and persistence

Strong drive to achieve optimism, even in the face of failure
Organizational commitment

Empathy

Ability to understand the emotional makeup of other people
Skill in treating people according to their emotional reactions

knowledge of developing and keeping talent

cross-cultural awareness

serving customers

Social skill

mastery of relationship management and network building

the capacity to establish rapport and find common ground

Effectiveness in leading change persuasiveness
Expertise in building and leading teams

Source. (Goleman, 2004)

 

Perspectives of Emotional Intelligence

Three perspectives of the concept of “emotional intelligence” are identified:

The "trait model focuses on behavioral dispositions and self-perceived abilities," the "ability model focuses on the ability" of the individual "to process emotional information and use it appropriately within the social environment," and the "mixed model describes the combination of mental abilities, dispositions, and traits” (Mayer J. D., Caruso D. R., Salovey P, 2000).

Emotional intelligence distinguishes among leaders who are successful in organizations, where technical skills are less of a significant factor (Goleman, 2004). Additionally, emotional intelligence competencies are required for any "leader to be successful in reflecting on experiences, analyzing contextual signs, relating to followers and creating connections" (Watkins D., Earnhardt M., Pittenger L., Roberts R., Rietsema K., Cosman-Ross J, 2017, p. 150).

 

References

Armstrong, M., 2014. ARMSTRONG’S Handbook of human resource management practice. 13 ed. united kingdom: s.n.

Goleman, D (1995) Emotional Intelligence, New York, Bantam

Goleman, D., 2004. What Makes a Leader?. Harvard Bussiness Review.

 Mayer J. D., Caruso D. R., Salovey P. (2000). Emotional intelligence meets traditional standards for intelligence. Intelligence, 27, 267-298.

Petrides, K V and Furnham, A (2000) On the dimensional structure of emotional intelligence, Personality and Individual Differences, 29, pp 313–20

Watkins D., Earnhardt M., Pittenger L., Roberts R., Rietsema K., Cosman-Ross J. (2017). Thriving in complexity: A framework for leadership education. Journal of Leadership Education, 16(14), 148-163.


Comments

  1. Agreed. According to the studies done through 119 information technology professionals, there is a weak but positive correlation between emotional intelligence and employee engagement; having a high Emotional intelligence help an individual to be an effective and engaged employee (Yucel Karamustafa and Kunday, 2018).

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    1. “Emotional intelligence can help leaders solve complex problems, make better decisions, plan how to use their time effectively, adapt their behavior to the situation, and manage crises” (Yukl, 2010, p. 213).
      thank you for your good feedback

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  2. Agreed. The capacity to recognize and control both your own and other people's emotions is known as emotional intelligence. A person's view of their own situations in life, in light of the culture and value systems in which they reside, as well as their own objectives, standards, and worries, can be used to define their quality of life (Maharaj & Ramsaroop, 2022).

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    1. thanks zacky for your input, Training on behavior models – this training model includes social and emotional competencies such as accurate self-assessment, Adaptability, initiative and innovation, empathy, and communication. Content based presentations, extensive role playing and encouraging on applying the learnings and providing feedbacks. (Goleman, 2001)

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  3. This is a very rare topic speaks about the emotional intelligence. there's a commonality between team work and emotional intelligence. Also emotional intelligence is more competent than visible skills, i.e. technical skills (Joe Luca & Pina Tarricone, 2001)

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    1. Thank You Dileka Ranawaka for Great Appreciation, The personal characteristics that affect people’s
      behaviour at work, as discussed below, are their
      ability, intelligence, personality, attitudes, emotions
      and emotional intelligence (Armstrong, 2014)

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  4. Great and rare article Ameen and adding furthermore, Most researchers agree that emotional awareness and emotional management are core factors of EI (Jordan & Troth 2002). A lack of self-awareness is an obstacle to self-confidence and maturity itself is a process of increasing one’s awareness about one’s emotions and relationships (Goleman 1998).

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    1. Thank you Malshani Jayaneththi, Managers and HR specialists need to take into account the general factors that affect how people behave at work, emotional intelligence in a variety of ways in daily life. Various techniques for developing emotional intelligence include: (Armstrong, 2014).

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